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10 Songs to Cheer up to… except there are 15 of them… 16, March 2007

Posted by babychaos in Adult Content, General Wittering, Grumpy Old Bag, Life and living.
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Ok, so counting has never been my strong point! Here is my top “ten” list of songs to play when you feel blue… Any blue people out there? Well… Doctor BabyChaos prescribes these fifteen smashing songs to help you through. I hope they help you along as much as they do me. This is a light hearted look at being sad so, if that’s likely to offend you, look away until my next post.

Stage One: Wallowing in it.
If you’re down and you want to cry some more then go ahead. When human beings get sad our eyes leak. It’s nature, it’s what we do. It’s the pressure valve and it makes us feel better. Alternatively, if you are the bottling type or have been snivelling for quite long enough you may want to beat back the tears and if that’s the case a good dose of singing bitterly and angrily may help. Try these…

Say Hello, Wave Goodbye – Soft Cell: Sing along with bitter angst (and in tune). Make sure you get the original late 80s (or was it early 90s) recording. The subsequent one is a much better performance but it’s lost the raw power of its predecessor. Mr Almond is hurting and angry in the original version and if you are too, it’s great to join in.

Stong – Robbie Williams: Are you normally a jolly soul? Do people think you’re going to top yourself if you stop smiling for more than 30 seconds? Yeh, well if you’re one of those and you just want to take a bit of time out feel a bit crap about something this is a great song. “Not so tough now are we? No?” Yeh, well who gives a smeg? It’s allowed.

The Tracks of My Tears – Smoky Robinson: Another one for the down clown. Get into it, screw up your eyes, give it your soul… you’ll feel better if only because you know you’re looking a bit odd and imagining how it looks makes you laugh.

Help Me – Johnny Cash: A soulful, desperate, heart rending prayer from a man in dire need. When your back’s against the wall and you’ve nowhere else to turn, play this and realise you are not alone. People have been there before you. Namely Johnny Cash, ill and in pain and mourning the death of his wife. Utterly honest and straight from the heart, if this one doesn’t give you goosebumps you do not have a soul. You will be really wailing into your soup but by heaven you’ll feel better afterwards.

Stage Two: Reassurance
Ok so once you’ve done the crying, wrung out your handkerchief and you’re ready to go on you may need to hear some songs that tell you everything is going to be ok.

Stop Crying Your Heart Out – Oasis: When I lost my job I played this over and over as I drove home. I did cry my heart out… for the whole two hour journey but blimey I felt better by the time I’d finished.

Electrical Storm – U2: A good one to play if you are in the midst of the storm and not sure what the outcome will be. You know you have to sort yourself out but you may not know how or what to do for the best. Don’t worry, you are not cracking up, you are merely being human. I’d lay bets that everyone with a problem thinks themselves round in circles, usually when the result is dependent on somebody else’s decision or if they know the answer but doing it is asking too much of them at that time. Don’t worry you will work it through in the end, stop thinking about it and play this, it sums up the atmosphere perfectly.

Golden Slumbers/Carry That Weight/The End – The Beatles: Another people-have-been-there-before-you track. You are going to have to take the crap but you’ll get through to the funky bit, I promise and so does Paul. Listen to him! He’s hurting but he knows he’s going to make it. So are you.

The Light of Day – the Divine Comedy: The kind of thing your parents tell you when you break up from your first love affair. Unfortunately, for all that, the message is no less true.

“I feel shit now, but I know in the end I’ll be ok.” It says.

You may not believe this if you’ve just been jilted for the first time but trust me, you will get through. You will look back and – although you may not laugh like they said – you will smile and yes, everything will be ok. I’m sorry but I’m afraid in this instance your parents are right. Don’t worry about how strong you are, either, you’re tougher than you know.

Always the Sun – The Stranglers: Once again, you need to look out for the original version from the album Dream Time not the subsequent versions. The message? Things look a bit crap but they’ll be ok in the end.

Stage Three: Acceptance – I don’t want to go back but I’m not quite over it.
Once you’ve listened to Doctor BC’s magic songs for long enough, the light may dawn. You may begin to realise that it’s going to work out. That said, you probably still wish you could just fast forward through this bit to the point where you are completely over it, absorbing any useful lessons as you go.

Too Young to Die – The Divine Comedy: The weary acceptance that you need to develop, that change is good because it helps you to do that, even when it is painful. The other song I played when I lost my job. It may be about changing your life, yourself but it’s just as handy to listen to if some annoying bastard has come along and changed it for you.

The Waiting – Tom Petty: Waiting is the hardest part. Waiting not to feel crap, waiting to get on with life again. Sometimes you feel like you’re struggling and getting nowhere. Stop struggling is probably the answer.

There is NO Stage Four: You can zone out at any point in the process.
When you want something to take you away and make you forget life is happening.

Comfortably Numb – Pink Floyd: Pink Floyd are knocking on. Youngsters, they may all look l like your dad – or possibly your granddad – but they are responsible for the perfect song to zone to – possibly one of the most beautiful pop melodies of all time. The words are about detachment from reality and describe the feeling extremely well, so well that it’s easy to detach for a while if you listen. The melody is extraordinarily uplifting – truly incredible. This got me through the first really crap time in my life – being bullied at school – and yet with all those connotations I still love the song. Very little else comes close.

Strung Out – Veldt: Similar deal, just switch off, zone out and enjoy. Great to play if you decide to alleviate your negative feelings by going for a drive. It’s the perfect music to watch streets, traffic and pedestrians slide past to.

Stage Five: Wahoo! I made it.
The moment when you suddenly realise that life is a bit fine and dandy again. You may be feeling amazed and perhaps, even, a bit smug that, gargantuan waves and all, the storms have failed to sink you.

I’ve Been This Way Before – Neil Diamond: This is from the album Serenade (I think) in 1975 so he’s beginning to lose the connection his early stuff has. It’s very slick, which makes it difficult to align with what he’s saying even though it is straight from the heart. BUT it’s still a cracking song and it does capture the. “Blimey! Did I survive that?” Moment well. It’s also at a point where he’s still Gospel influenced so there’s some nice keyboard work in there. Oh yes, and not forgetting that, spangly shirts and dodgy hair, aside, the man has a voice which, frankly, should come with a public health warning. A little sugar for the ladies, perhaps. Mmm Mmm!

Through the Dark – K T Tunstall: The last and best track on the album Eye to the Telescope. About coming to terms with where life has put you even if you thought, no believed, you were going to be somewhere else at this point. Accepting that no matter how strongly you believe you are making your own destiny, you’re not always calling the shots. It’s not what happens that counts, it’s how you react. You can’t control other people’s actions but you can control your own. You get the picture, I’m sure.

I Won’t Back Down – Johnny Cash: Because I fucking won’t and – clearly – he wasn’t going to, either! The original Tom Petty version is good but this is top-level, nobody-dicks-with-me stuff. A real pished weedgie rant of a song.

“D’you want some more?” It’s shouting as it reels drunkenly across Sauchiehall Street with a can of extra strong lager in one hand and the other on its crotch, struggling with it’s flies as it attempts to get it’s willy out so it can take a whizz on your shoes. “Do you? Do you? Bring it on!”

I hope you enjoyed my choice of tunes and that my choice of language hasn’t been too fruity.

Comments»

1. Mrs. Nicklebee - 16, March 2007

Thanks for the song suggestions, BC. I’m more of a movie watcher when I need a good cry, but I can totally appreciate the effect of music to accomplish the same thing. :)

I suppose you’ve survived the first night of being with pg people. I’ll be praying that you are able to enjoy yourself and that they are sensitive to your feelings for this second day.

Take care, friend. :)

2. Mrs. Nicklebee - 17, March 2007

Funnily enough, we’re sitting here watching a movie called Barnyard: The Original Party Animals and your Johnny Cash song is in it in a couple of places. :)

3. babychaos - 17, March 2007

Hey thanks Mrs N.

Re the pregnant ladies… yep it was cool. All went fine and without a hitch except that I have a horrendous hangover today. Not sure why as I didn’t feel remotely boozy last night.

I won’t back down is cool but “Help Me” is amazing. There’s an even better one on the album – I think it was the last American recording – called “I came to believe” which is about how Johnny Cash came to have a faith. It’s pretty much the same story as “Man of God” except it’s a bit more understated and down to earth because it’s Johnny Cash, rather than Mr Spangly.

Cheers

BC

4. Scott Doherty - 21, March 2008

One song to defo brighten days.. *Fighting for my love – Nil Lara

Enjoy
Scotty :D

5. Trish - 21, August 2010

This post might be 3 years old but I found it in a maudlin, post-shock-dumping Google tonight and it’s been brilliant. Thank you. :)

babychaos - 22, August 2010

Trish, I’m delighted to have cheered you up.

Cheers

BC

6. guest - 11, September 2010

i found this on google, and i like your suggestions

thank you!

i personally added ‘never gonna give you up’ from rick astley, ‘going strong’ from the dropkick murphys, ‘surfing bird’ of the trashmen, and ‘loose yourself’ from eminem to my list of songs.

7. Amy - 20, November 2010

I came across your list in a Yahoo search, and I LOVE your selections.

Thanks so much

babychaos - 24, November 2010

Delighted you did! Thanks for taking the time to say so.

Cheers

BC

8. Sky - 27, November 2010

I feel shit now, but I know in the end I’ll be ok. I like this word ’cause I also feel the same now,yeh!! I’ll be ok

Thanks for the nice song!!

cheer up!!

9. Guest - 2, March 2011

Thankyou for this site whoever made it, It has helped me quite a few times in the past and is doing currently :)

babychaos - 11, March 2011

It’s a pleasure, when my boy is a bit older and I have more time, I fully intend to resuscitate it. In the meantime, I hope what’s here is useful!

Cheers

BC

10. daryll bangoy - 24, April 2011

thank you so much for this. i fell alot better now then before. life does suck but you live it to the fullest. thanks again

11. RéKa - 25, April 2011
12. Nathalie - 20, July 2011

Thankyou, I loved it!
Nathalie

13. Desert Rat - 19, October 2011

My favorite get over it combo is Chicago’s ‘Remember the Feeling’ immediately followed by AC/DC’s ‘Back In Black’. The songs are so different that together they take the energy out of my anger and sadness.

14. Sunil - 13, December 2011

Though i am basically a classic rock fan… i like all your picks.. here .They are very apt for the feeling i am going thru now.

15. Geo - 14, February 2012

Thank you, babychaos, wherever you are.

I was also listening to Whitney Huston (may she rest in peace) – When you belive. In what stage does that song puts me? :)

Geo

babychaos - 24, February 2012

I’m not sure but hang in… there is life after love… there’s also more love too. Good luck. xx

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18. Khaled - 1, September 2012

Stop crying your heart Out simply gave me an amazing push. Thanks.

19. maksen - 28, December 2012

When im down i watch fightclub.. then i say: “not a single fuck is given, everything will be awesome”

20. Ron Ace Thoresen - 25, January 2013

i am about to listen them :/
my girl friend just left me and we had a long distance relationship, hope this make me feel better after all she was my first love :(
thanks for the post, i love the top 5 the most.
wish me luck :)

21. Ben - 24, February 2013

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